What to do if a Friend's in an Unhealthy Relationship
Some of the signs of an unhealthy relationship include monitoring where a partner goes and who they hang out with checking someone’s cell phone or e-mail without permission keeping someone from spending time with family or friends insulting or shaming someone making someone do sexual things physically hurting someone in any way (like pushing, hitting, or slapping) forbidding activities that someone likes to do not letting someone have access to money.
How Can I Help Someone I Care About Who Is in an Unhealthy Relationship?
Leaving an unhealthy relationship can be really difficult and take a long time. In fact, it takes an average of seven times before someone leaves an abusive partner for good. So don’t give up on your loved one if she or he is not ready to leave or keeps going back. The best thing you can do is listen, be supportive, and when you get the chance, talk about how much better life could be. Here are more tips about what you can do:
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Be supportive and listen patiently. Having you there and getting support can make a big difference.
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Help your loved one recognize that abuse is not “normal” and never deserved.
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If your loved one is open to leaving the relationship, develop a safety plan together and identify resources that can help.